Relationships Matter – MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues)

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ON FEELING LET DOWN

We have a LowerEgo (Head) & HigherEgo (Heart); Our LowerEgo with all its Angst, Worry & Selfishness is In Charge…when Our LowerEgo Surrenders its Authority & Free Will to Our HigherEgo We just Sit Back & Enjoy The Ride, ‘Good’ & ‘Bad’; I Surrendered and, while My LowerEgo still gets a Little Nervous, I 100% Trust My HigherEgo…My HigherEgo has NEVER Let Me Down; My LowerEgo has believed that it was being Let Down so Self-Sabotaged & Self-Destructed by trying to Control & Fix that which My HigherEgo had Perfectly Under Control…

…♡♡♡…

ON LOYALTY

A “loyal person” will ALWAYS “give a damn”; anything else is:

♡ Fake
♡ Fraudulent
♡ False

…and Self Serving; ALL about Giving on Condition of Return:

♡ A Dumb “loyal person” aka A Doormat DESERVES to be Walked All Over
♡ A Smart “loyal person” Sets Boundaries then Gently, and if necessary Aggressively, Asserts said Boundaries
♡ We CHOOSE what type of “loyal person” We wanna be

Our CHOICE Peeps; how about We THINK!!! for OurSelves?…

…♡♡♡…

ON MANAGING USE (ULTRA SENSITIVE EMPATH) EMOTIONAL RESPONSES & USE CONSIDERED REACTIONS

As a USE it can be difficult to swallow the:

♡ Vitriol
♡ Visciousness
♡ Vindictiveness

…that some, particularly Skeptics, may CHOOSE to Hurl Our Way; I used to React to the extent of getting in to Big Fights then Falling Out…I now CHOOSE to Accept their Nastiness, Alchemise it and Transmute it to Love then Reflect that Love back at them; if they are Beyond whatever Help I can Offer them, I know that they are an Assignment for SomeOne Else and I Gently Let Them Go…

…♡♡♡…

ON TRUST & FORGIVENESS

My Experience is that there is ONLY A Sole (Soul?) Enitity I NEED to Trust; ALL other Entities I CHOOSE to Trust or NOT as The Case May Be…I Manage My Expectations & Sense of Entitlement; The Sole (Soul?) Entity I NEED to Trust? Me, MeSelf, I; Trust is much like Forgiveness, if I Am Unable to Trust & Forgive MySelf How the Hell Am I Able to Trust & Forgive Others?

…♡♡♡…

About Yernasia Quorelios

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