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Monthly Archives: Feb 2020
Relationships Matter – Right In The Head
ON MIND AND MEMORY; PLUS BEING MENTALLY COMPROMISED AKA ‘LOSING OUR MINDS’, ‘GOING CRAZY’, ‘ASCENDING IN TO INSANITY’ ET AL β – Diamond Hard – β In My Experience there ARE Two Types of Traumatic Memories; these Being Active Traumatic … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Emotional Abusers Employing Emotional Blackmail
ON MANIPULATORS β§ Clubbing – Poor No Longer ‘Prince’ Harry; it’s Crystal Clarity that ‘Harry’ is Bewitched, Bewildered and π― Ensared by a Black Widow…ergo Caught Between a Rock and a Hard Place; yet He knows His True Family, His … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Effective Communication
ON THE SUBTLETY OF ‘CAPABLE’ AND ‘ABLE’ (FOR CHRISTIAN FOLK; IT’S THE PARABLE OF CAIN AND ABEL) β – Diamond Hard – β β My Capacity is I Can Do; while My Ability is I Do Do (I just said … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Martyrs
ON ‘YOU CAN TAKE IT OUT ON ME; PLEASE DON’T TAKE IT ON THEM’ β – Diamond Hard – β β Does this Sound Familiar EveryOne π€ ? I AM of The View that there is Guilt Tripping Going On … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Humbleness
ON THE POWERS OF BEING HUMBLE β – Diamond Hard – β β§ Clubbing – Ambition, Goals, Targets et al – Clubbing; this is Bad β€ Rock Bottom vs Plateaux, a Desperate Climb up a Mountain Slope only to find … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Effective Communication
ON LYING, TRUTHING, ‘ENDS JUSTIFY THE MEANS’ AND ALWAYS MOOD NEVER THE SUBSTANCE β – Diamond Hard – β So, EveryOne; some Questions: β€ What is a Definition of Lies and/or Truths π€ ? β€ Is it Worth It At … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – ‘Succeeding’ and ‘Failing’
ON ‘FAILURE’ AND ‘SUCCESS’ β – Diamond Hard – β β‘ With Reference to The Poem ‘If’ by Rudyard Kipling β If I AM Banging My Head against a Brick Wall ALL I Get is Bloodied, Bruised, Broken and it … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Hurting
ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE β – Diamond Hard – β β Much is Made of The Obvious Macho Male Abuse of Partners and Family; very little is Reported of Insidious, Tempestuous Female Abuse of Partners and Family so why this disparity … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Innovating
ON INNOVATION AND CO-CREATIVITY β‘ Retro is The Way Forward EveryOne; please, Don’t ReInvent The Wheel, please…rehashing is A Plague on ALL of Us EveryOne; putting on Different Clothes doesn’t Change Who We ARE, just ask Cinderellas Sisters or ‘The … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Lying To Self
ON HYPOCRISY β – Diamond Hard – β β So, YOU!!! CHOOSE!!! to Protect YourSelf by HURTING!!! Others in The Interests of CONTROL!!! so I Say “Bravo, Well Done; and I Hate YOU!!!” …interesting really; the whole revenge and vengeance … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Relating
ON WHALE SONGS AND OTHER NON VERBAL FORMS OF COMMUNICATING β – Diamond Hard – β β Words ARE an Effective Form of Communication when Used in The Right Way EveryOne; yet there ARE Many Other Forms of Communication whether … Continue reading
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Relationships Matters – Random Ramblings
ON THE MOST POWERFUL STATEMENT IN HUMAN LANGUAGE; ‘JE N’EST COMPRIS PAS’ β – Diamond Hard – β β This is FranΓ§Γ is, En English this means ‘I Don’t Know’; it means ‘I Don’t Understand’ …so ARE YOU!!! Right; or ARE … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Reality
ON NORMAL β – Diamond Hard – β β Many, including My Family, Refuse to Communicate with Me Because, according to Them, ‘I AM NOT!!! Normal’, Their Normal; there ARE Three Normals: β€ Your Normal β‘ My Normal β§ Clubbing … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Telling Others Off
ON RULES, REGULATIONS AND BEING ORDERLY β – Diamond Hard – β β I AM One of The Absolute Worst at ‘Falling In To Line’, ‘Obeying Orders’, ‘Conforming’, ‘Doing As I Am Told’ et al and I Received many Punches, … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Demands And Wants
ON DREAMING AND CORRUPTION β – Diamond Hard – β β “Power Corrupts; absolute Power Corrupts absolutely.” ~ Marcus Aurelian β€ Money Corrupts; insatiable appetite for Money Corrupts absolutely β‘ Our Dreams ARE ALL About Memories, Symbolism and Messages if … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – I Believe Yet I Have No Faith Or Conviction
ON THE POWER OF PERCEPTION β – Diamond Hard – β β If I AM in a Hole and I AM UnAble to Perceive a WAY OUT!!! of that Hole π then there is NO WAY OUT!!! of My Self … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Empathy
ON THE USE (ULTRA SENSITIVE EMPATH) β – Diamond Hard – β β NoOne is Born Evil EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that a Zygote, an Embryo, a Foetus, a Newborn, a Baby, a Toddler has No Idea of What … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Healing
ON THE USE (ULTRA SENSITIVE EMPATH) β‘ I AM Very, Very, Very Happy to SEE (Soulful Emotional Energy) The USE (Ultra Sensitive Empaths) Tribe Gathering Together in The Total Abscence of Adulation Addicts and Supporting Others; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Skills
ON CAPACITY AND ABLE β – Diamond Hard – β β‘ We ALL Have Capability Inherent In Us; whatever Ability We Develop is Entirely Up To Us…sure We BLAME!!! Others and Circumstance for Our ‘MisFortunes’; ultimately it is OUR PERCEPTION!!! … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Sex
ON VALENTINES DAY β€ AnyOne Else Noticed that Happy VD may mean Happy Venereal Disease; how apt, perhaps, Me THINKING!!! π€ ? …β€β€β€…
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Relationships Matter – LAUGH OUT LOUD!!!
ON THE COSMIC JOKE β – Diamond Hard – β β As a Survivor of Multiple Mental Health Issues (MMHI) I AM Perfectly Entitled to Quote from ‘The Terminator’ Movie Franchise; “There is no fate but that which we make.” … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Relationships
ON LOVE AND HATE; TWO SIDES OF THE SAME COIN β – Diamond Hard – β Some Questions EveryOne; do YOU!!!: β Love Child Abuse π€ ? I HATE!!! Child Abuse β Love Domestic Violence π€ ? I HATE!!! Domestic … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Tradition
ON ‘BE MY VALENTINE’ β – Diamond Hard – β β A Reverse Listing of The Importance of Valentines Day: β‘ 6. Forgiving Exes and Self for Relationship Breakdowns β‘ 5. Commercialised Perception of Desired Partner β‘ 4. Commercialised Perception … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Relationships
ON CO-DEPENDENT β‘ Co-Dependency is when two or more people rely on Each Other in an UnHealthy Way; conversely Co-Operation is when Independent People Co-Operate with Each Other…for example an Addict and an Over Care Taker ARE a Co-Dependent Couple; … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Single
ON BENEFITS OF SINGLEDOM β – Diamond Hard – β β‘ No Drinks Thrown in My Face or Slapping β‘ No Fucking Fleas in My Ear Screaming and Shouting β‘ No Telling Me How Useless I AM for Perceived Lack … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Gender Wars
ON MISOGYNY β‘ So, ALL these Macho Men Puffing Out Their Chests yet Kow Towing to a White Elderly Gentleman, ‘God’, who has a Dusky Wife, Goddess, while Forcing Family and Friends to do The Same while Reserving Their Right … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Apologies
ON AUTHENTICALLY APOLOGISING β – Diamond Hard – β β I AM So Very Sorry EveryOne yet A Mealy Mouthed “I’m sorry.” is NOT!!! an Authentic Apology; a Real, Authentic Apology is Changing The Way We Think, Speak and BEHAVE!!! … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Authenticity
ON CRUEL TO BE KIND β – Diamond Hard – β β Cruelty is Our Setting Out to Deliberately Harm Others, sometimes We find OurSelves faced with Our Beloveds Self Harming so We Harm Them with Our Psychological Slaps to … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Accomplishment NOT!!! Achievement
ON FAILING AND SUCCEEDING β – Diamond Hard – β β As long as YOU!!! Understand what Success means to YOU!!! Failure Evaporates and YOU!!! ALWAYS!!! Succeed; because the THOUGHTLESSNESS!!! of Dumbly Following Anothers Definition of Success is not only … Continue reading
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Relationships Matter – Privacy
ON ANONYMITY β – Diamond Hard – β β As a ‘Drunken Addict’ I NEED!!! AA (Alcoholics Anonymous), as a ‘Narcotic Addict’ I NEED!!! NA (Narcotics Anonymous); is this for REAL!!! π€ ?…it’s Really Funny, NOT!!! in a Good Way, … Continue reading
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