Monthly Archives: Mar 2014

Relationships Matter – Effective Communication

ON ATTITUDE ♡ Parental Type Person: “I have a problem with your drinking.” ♡ Me: “I have no problem with my drinking.” ♡ Which Of Us Has ‘A Problem’? …♡♡♡…

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Relationships Matter – MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues)

ON PROCESSING PAST If We FAIL To Authentically Properly Process Our Past, We Continue To Lie To OurSelves That We Have Moved On; We Get Psychologically Stuck In: ♡ Repression ♡ Denial ♡ Suppression …resulting in Cognitive Dissonance… …♡♡♡…

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

ON ENERGY & ENDINGS ♡ Divine Masculine Energy Seeks To Fix ♡ Divine Feminine Energy Seeks To Break ♡ Some Things Are Unfixable And Need To Be Broken …My Experience Is That Breaking Something, However Painful It Seems At The … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Authenticity

ON TRUTH My Truth Is Exactly That, Mine; My B&V (Beliefs & Values) Remain The Same Until An Epiphany Resonates With Me…I Trust MySelf ThereFore I Need No: ♡ Proof ♡ Rationalisation ♡ Reasons …for Changing My B&V; I CHOOSE … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Sex

ON FILTHY WHORES & STUDS Who The Hell Decreed That A Girl With A Preference For Multiple Sexual Partners At The Same Time Is A Dirty Slut; While A Boy With Multiple Sexual Partners At The Same Time Is An … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

The: ♡ Past ♡ Present ♡ Future …ALL Exist Simultaneously giving Us Our 99.7% Predictability & Certainty; it’s the 0.3% Uncertainty & Unpredictability where The Fun is and where Innovation & Co-Creation reside…What Is The Point Of Learning? I Believe … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Love

ON LOVE OCRIM Is A 5LA (Five Letter Acronym) for ‘Observe, Connect, Report, Inspire & Motivate’; Here Are A Couple More Acronyms: ♡ AT U (Absolutes, Threats & Ultimatums) ♡ FOR U (Forgive, Observe, Reflect & Understand) ♡ ‘At You’ … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

ON LIFE & MMHI (MULTIPLE MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES) ♡ Life’s ALWAYS Been PERFECT, The ONLY Place I HAD A Problem Was In My Head; I’m HEALED Now And I Will ALWAYS Heal ♡ I Watched The Sunset Yesterday, I Watched … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Effective Communication

ON DIFFUSING My Comment On A Toxic SNS (Social Network Site) Exchange: “My Sole Contribution To This Toxic Thread; I’m Feeling Tainted, Dirty & Polluted Already!!! The Negative Energy In This Thread Is A Direct Consequence Of Unadmitted, Unacknowledged, Unaddressed … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

ON THE CORPORATE CORPSE Some Of Us OutStay Our Welcome As Corporate Citizens; Long After Our Corporate Career Has Died We Continue To Hang On To Our Corporate Corpse Like Grim Death…This Makes Prising Our Cold Clammy Fingers Off Our … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Authenticity

ON HYPOCRISY, DOUBLE STANDARDS & CONTRADICTION …♡♡♡…

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Relationships Matter – Effective Communication

ON LISTENING When someone says: ♡ “You’re NOT listening to me.” …they could Be Projecting and Equally saying: ♡ “I’m NOT listening to you!!!” ♡ Hmmm; InTeresTing? “I Am NOT Entitled To Your Agreement NOR Do I Expect You To … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

ON LIVING LIFE ♡ Artist: Krewella ♡ Song: Enjoy The Ride ♡ Album: Get Wet …is The Key to Trusting Any Type of Fortune Telling: ♡ Rember the Fortune Told …then… ♡ Test The Outcome? ♡ Only We Can Decide … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Sex

ON STILL STRUGGLING WITH SEXUALITY ♡ Complete Consent (NO Rape) ♡ Eager Enthusiasm ♡ Wild Willingness …Period; Especially During Period… …♡♡♡…

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

ON EXISTENCE ♡ An Ant Sees Less Than An Eagle Yet Has No Less Right To Exist; EveryOne & EveryThing Are Particles, Static Or In Motion, With No More Or No Less Right To Exist Than Any Other Particle ♡♡♡…

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Relationships Matter – Effective Communication

ON MY TRUTH “I Am NOT Entitled To Your Agreement NOR Do I Expect You To Agree With Me; I Am Entitled To & I Do Expect Your Acceptance Of My Truth Whether You Agree With My Truth Or Not. … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Authenticity

ON BEING TRUE TO YOU These pics remind me of Pretty Much ALL My Exes And Prospective Sexual Encounters; Especially My Ex & Future Wives; The Psychological Term Is Cognitive Dissonance, The Technical Term Is Compart-MENTAL-isation ♡♡♡…

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Relationships Matter – Sex

ON SPIRITUAL SEX Why Are We Taught Nothing REAL about Sex By Folk Who Have Experienced Sex? Like: ♡ Sex Is Dirty? ♡ Sex Is A Reward? ♡ Sex Is Sin? Why Are We NOT Taught? That: ♡ Sex Is … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Ego

ON THINKING FOR OURSELVES ♡ Service To Self? or ♡ Service To Others? ♡ We CHOOSE …I CHOOSE Service To Others However Difficult Discourse May Become… I Prefer Satisfying My Ego by: ♡ Serving & Crediting RATHER THAN: ♡ Hurting … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Authenticity

ON REDISCOVERING OUR TRUE SELVES My Path to Rediscovering My Authentic Childlike State was: ♡ Letting Go of Any Attachment; Especially To Money & Materialism ♡ Setting Intentions Rather Than Goals, Objectives & Targets ♡ Trusting In The Process, Relaxing … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

ON LETTING GO & SURRENDER I Believe that: ♡ To Surrender is NOT To Lose; To Surrender Is Simply Letting Go ♡ To Lovingly Surrender Is To Keep A Relationship Alive To Lovingly Fight Another Day ♡ We CHOOSE …To … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Effective Communication

ON COMMUNICATION, WAR & PEACE The Struggle We ALL Have In Difficult Dialogue With Each Other? ♡ It Seems Like It’s ALWAYS The Military that is sent in to The Unknown First and, Of Course, Military Might Is Met With … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Sex

ON ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS I Believe that Sex IS The Romantic Relationship NOT A Consequence Of The Romantic Relationship; If Sex With Our Romantic Partner Is NOT: ♡ Completely Consensual ♡ Eagerly Enthusiastic ♡ Wildly Willing …Then We Do NOT Have … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

ON LIFE PATHS Pretty Simple Really, Whatever Works For You; Caveats Being: ♡ Be True To YourSelf ♡ Damage NoOne ♡ Be Your Natural Self …♡♡♡…

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Relationships Matter – Mental Health

ON OUR ACCOUNTABILITY & RESPONSIBILITY ♡ I Was Physically Abused As A Child, Brutally Beaten For The Slightest Percieved Wrong Doing And Sometimes Beaten Just For Fun; I Was Bullied At Work & Unfairly Fired From A Job I Loved … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Emotion

ON FORTITUDE ♡ Formidable Intellectual Fortitude is Often Mistaken For Emotional & Spiritual Strength …♡♡♡…

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Relationships Matter – Mental Health

ON MMHI (MULTIPLE MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES) By Admitting, Acknowledging & Addressing My MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues) I have Given Up My Negative Nurture & Surrendered To My Nature; I’ve Rediscovered My: ♡ Kind ♡ Caring ♡ Compassionate …Childlike State; … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

ON LIVING I Live My Life Each Day as though it Matters Little whether or not I Die; so I have CHOSEN to Primarily Live My Life By: ♡ Intention – Thoughtfully Reactive …rather than… ♡ Recklessness – Thoughtless Action … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Life Paths

ON PATHS & FUN, FUNKY FORKS If We Look Carefully at This Pic We See that there is No-One & No-Thing (They Are Too Scared To Stray From The Straight & Narrow) In Our Way on The Fun, Funky Forks … Continue reading

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Relationships Matter – Energy Flow

ON ENERGY EXERCISE & BREATHING We Normally take Shallow Breaths, just Deep Enough to Keep Us Alive; Deeper Breathing, technically known as Diaphragmatic Breathing, has Many Benefits especially in assisting with On The Spot Management Of MMHI (Multiple Mental Health … Continue reading

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