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Relationships Matter – Recovery

Posted on Oct 29, 2010 by Yernasia Quorelios

As far as I can make out it is often the trivial stuff which causes the kind of relationship damage that leads to relationship breakdown. It also appears that it is often the serious stuff that actually cements and strengthens … Continue reading →

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Relationships Matter – Judgement

Posted on Feb 6, 2010 by Yernasia Quorelios

Appropriately Articulate Assumptions. Judge others the same way you would like to be judged. Continue reading →

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Relationships Matter – Pain

Posted on Dec 8, 2009 by Yernasia Quorelios

Emotional pain, or hurt, varies in intensity from the slightly uncomfortable to so searing as to feel unbearable. Blaming others or circumstance for hurt and pain is common. The sole custodian of emotions is the person who owns them and, consequently, ultimately responsible for how they feel. Continue reading →

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Relationships Matter – Blame

Posted on Dec 6, 2009 by Yernasia Quorelios

In my opinion blame should be avoided at all costs. Most of us are quick to find fault elsewhere and slow to admitting fault in ourselves. Continue reading →

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Relationships Matter – Conflict

Posted on Nov 30, 2009 by Yernasia Quorelios

Conflict may be described as “a state of opposition between persons or ideas or interests” – Source wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn. Once we have encountered someone they are permanently recorded in our memory and not forgotten unless we suffer some sort of catastrophic, irreversible memory loss. Whenever we encounter someone, however briefly, we establish a relationship that we never really “lose”. It continues to exist in one of four states – Harmony, Triggers, Conflict or Resolution. Continue reading →

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