ON COUPLING UP
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◇ I AM often Asked Why I Have No Girlfriend, Partner, Wife, Kids et al; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that My Reply is that Pretty Much Every Lady Insists on ‘My Way or The HighWay’ so I Take The ‘HighWay’ because No Mad, Crazy Bitch is Ever Gonna Mother Any Kids I Sire…it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity that this Sounds Sexist; the Reality is I AM NOT!!! a ‘Good Catch’ for Ladies because I AM NOT!!! Rich and I Don’t Do as I AM TOLD!!! especially when I AM YELLED!!! at or TOTALLY IGNORED!!! with ‘The Silent Treatment’, a TOTALLY INEFFECTIVE!!! Form of ‘Communication’, these ARE The Things that ALL Girls I Have Dated ARE REALLY INTERESTED IN!!! LOVE!!! doesn’t Even Enter the Relationship Equation as far as SHE!!! Deems yet there is HOPE!!! Some Couples Do Stick to ‘ ’til death do we part’; then die within a relatively short time of each others death 😎😇🤗 …
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ON PSYCHODYNAMICS
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◇ So, just what is the Difference Between Empathy and Sympathy, My View is that Empathy is about Understanding while Sympathy is Allowing Bad Behaviours ergo I AM Able to Empathise WithOut Sympathising; so, Your THOUGHTS!!! EveryOne 🤔 ?
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ON FRIENDSHIP
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Broadly Speaking There ARE Three Types of Friendships; these Friendships Being:
♤ Frequent Friends; this is Fertile Ground for Clinging, Angry Resentment when Appointments, Phone Calls, Texts et al ARE Inadvertently Missed and Interpreted as An Affront on Purpose
♧ Clubbing – Fair Weather Friends; only Turning Up when Wanting SomeThing so I Suggest Set Your Boundaries then Gently, if necessary Aggressively, Assert Your Boundaries – Clubbing
♡ Fast, Firm, Family Friends; these ARE Honest, True, Authentic and ALWAYS!!! There, No Matter What, Understanding if They ARE ASKED!!! to Wait Until Catching Up Again and Taking Constructive Criticism on The Chin
…so, which type of Friend ARE You EveryOne; which, of course, could be Interpreted as a Trick Question as Few of Us ARE Able to Effectively Examine Our Dark Side, Deflecting with Comments like “that’s too deep”, “what’s your point”, “why are you having a go at me”, “so I Guess We ARE No Longer Friends” 🤔 ?…
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ON FAMILY, FRIENDS, WORKMATES AND ACQUAINTANCES AND DOGS
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◇ “…we’ve had this conversation before…I’m NOT!!! a Bloody Social Worker…” ~ ‘Hot Mess’, Chromeo…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM NOT!!! a Mental Health Professional; so if You NEED!!! One Find One For Free or For a Fee…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM Very Intolerant of People Promoting Problems when in Conversation with Me; it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity that Those Seeking Solutions ARE Most Welcome to Discuss With Me in Respectful and Useful Discourse instead of Abusing A Dog by Making It Obedient so as to Satisfy THEIR LACK OF CONTROL!!! of Other People, Funny Really donch’ya THINK!!! EveryOne…preference for Dogs over People Reminds Me of Awesome Meme such as “My Dog Is Family!!!” which is Why Dogs Get a ShitLoad of Abuse as They ARE Conditioned to be Obedient like a Child and “They said come back as a Dog They said, it’ll Be Fun They said; such FUCKING LIARS!!!”…so ARE You An Obedient Dog or a Totally NonDependent, Free THINKING!!! Humanoid EveryOne; answers on a postcard please 🤔 ?
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Relationship Insights by Yernasia Quorelios 