♤ ON THE IGNORAMUS DUMBASS
♤ I Know Nothing EveryOne, I Know EveryThing EveryOne; especially How to Get Others Upset with My Intellect and Ignorance 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊
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ON LEADERSHIP
♡ I Do NOT!!! Believe in Leading because I Have Faith and Conviction in Others to Lead ThemSelves as I Lead MySelf; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I Assist Deluded Dictators Rid ThemSelves of Such Lead NoneSense which is Very, Very, Very Good for Creative/Business Practices and Personal Relationships…it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity that The Student is The Teacher is The Student is The Teacher is The Student is The Teacher; it’s SomeThing We Would ALL Do Well to REMEMBER!!!
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ON PROMISES, COMMITMENT AND OBLIGATION
As Creative/Business Personal People We May Run in to The Trap of OverEstimating Our Current Capacity to Deliver; be careful EveryOne, Please
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ON PAIN AND ADDICTION
♡ For Some Pain is An Addiction; Rage, Fury, Grief…for Others Pain is a Signal for Healing or Growth; I Will Certainly, Calmly, Tell My Kids
♡ “If you stop thinking of the pain as hurting you will realise that you are healing or growing.”
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ON SELF-ABSORBED, SELF-LOATHING SELF-TALK AND SELF-PITY
When We Perceive that We ARE Being Insulted, Put Down, Mocked, Destructivly Criticised et al by Another aka Bullying, Trolling and ALL those Other ‘Negative’ Nasties (often dressed up by Attackers (Wolf In Sheeps Clothing) as ‘Positive’ Feedback) I THINK!!! that Visualisation is a Very Powerful Way for Us to Get Things in Perspective; one of My Favourite Visualisations is ‘The Bullet Proof, Rubberised One Way Mirror’…in this Visualisation The Attacker is on The Mirror Side with gun in hand and I AM on The Other Side Seeing Them with Cystal Clear Clarity and, from Their Angry Perspective, Being a Disembodied Voice of Argument…eventually They Become Raging to the extent that they fire bullets at The Mirror where The Voice is coming from; so this means:
♡ 1. They ARE firing at Their Reflection
♡ 2. The bullets ARE Their Bullying Behaviour
♡ 3. The bullets RICOCHET!!! off The Rubberised Mirror Back at Them
…another Visualisation is Imagining, from a Place of Care, Kindness and Compassion, that The Attacker is in a Vulnerable Place and The Bullying Behaviour is Their Clumsy Way of Asking for Assistance; then it becomes Crystal Clear Clarity to You that These Horrible Words ARE NOT!!! about You at ALL, in fact The Attacker wants:
♡ “…to be like you, talk like you, walk like you…” ~ look up this quote online for a bit of Childlike Inspiration on how to Deal with Attackers EveryOne
…to Manage an Attacker to More Effective, Respectful and Productive Forms of Getting Their Message Across is by No Means an Easy UnderTaking; yet it’s Worth It and Good for Our Creative/Business Practices and Personal Relationships…
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ON HAIKU
♡ Disappointment And Despair
I wrote us down this little verse
To suggest for us it could be worse
Yet also much better if we’re less terse
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ON JOURNEYS AND DESTINATIONS
♡ The Start of My 3DJourney is Conception and The End is Death; ergo My End Goal, My Destination, is to Die Happy…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that there ARE Many WayStations on This Journey that I Have Mistook for a Destination, End Goals; sadly, previously, spiking somewhat of late recently, ARE The Suicides of Super ‘Successful’ People who ‘Have It ALL’…so I Exhort You ALL to Consider whether You ARE Heading for The Optimal, Right WayStation along Your 3DJourney or Heading for a Self-Imposed Death Trap; whether it’s 10, 100, 1000 or Seemingly Infinite years, Die Happy…a WayStation is a Place on a Journey for Rest, Reflection, Relaxation, Rejuvenation, Refreshment and then Resumption of Journey; so if At Any Given Moment 3DLife seems like a WayStation then treat it as such…it’s OBVIOUS!!! that Travails of The Past Feed in to Travails of The Future which tend to be somewhat more difficult than Those of The Past, Understandably so; it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM Grateful For and Appreciative Of WayStations as I Await My Next Challenge on My Journey to Dying Happy which is Very, Very, Very Good for Creative/Business Practices and Personal Relationships
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ON ‘SUCCESS’, ASPIRATIONS AND AMBITIONS
Wanna ‘Succeed’ EveryOne; REALLY!!! Satisfactorily ‘Succeed’ 🤔 ? If so Here ARE Three Simple Free Steps to Define Your Own, Personal, Individual, Unique Version of ‘Success’:
♡ 1. Set Your Intention Based on Your Dreams and NOT!!! on The Failed Dreams of Others; especially The Failed Dreams of Parents and Other ‘Authority’
♡ 2. Be Flexible; there is NOTHING!!! Wrong with PLANNING!!! there is EveryThing WRONG!!! with a FAILING PLAN!!!
♡ 3. Be Open to Things UnFolding in UnExpected Ways; then Watch in Wonder as The Outcome Exceeds ALL of Our Expectation in Ways We NEVER EVER!!! Imagined
…so Be Led or Lead OurSelves; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that it is Our CHOICE!!!…
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ON HAIKU
♡ Staying Sane
Emotions Ebb and Flow
Thoughts Come and Go
It Pays to Let Them Do So
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…I Used to believe I AM Able to do “ANYTHING!!!” then I Realised My “Limits”; so I Accepted that There ARE Things I AM UnAble to do like Being a Rocket Scientist, Plumber, Carpenter, Fly et al…so I Accept what I AM Able to do and I Do it VERY FUCKING WELL!!! and Expertly 😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊 …
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ON ANGER, RAGE, FURY, SADNESS, GRIEF, BEREFT AND OTHER UPSET
♡ People of ALL Genders ARE NEVER!!! Made Angry 😣😥😖 EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We GET ANGRY!!! 😵😡😠 then We Become Shocked and Sad 😨😢😭 …it’s The Monster Under The Bed, The Monster in The Cupboard, The Monster InSide of Us that We NEED!!! to BeFriend in Order to Manage Our Perceptions of Upsetting Situations; ‘Monsters Inc.’ ~ Movie…it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that Managing Our Perceptions Keeps Us Calm and is Very Good for Creative/Business Practices and Personal Relationships, My View and Experience is that I Have No NEED!!! to Work on My Strengths EveryOne; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that My Strengths ARE Working for Me 🤓 …so I Work on My Weaknesses; three of which ARE:
♡ 1. I Don’t Like Being Around People Because I AM Considered InAppropriate and They Get UPSET!!! á la so 😬😡😠
♡ 2. I AM Financially Lazy so I AM Poor 🤑
♡ 3. I Don’t Like Fleas in My Ear so I AM Single 😔
…😆😅😄😃😂😁😀😉😊 ; getting The Cosmic Joke is a 3DLife Crowning Accomplishment EveryOne…
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ON JERKS, DARKNESS AND MMHI
We talk of Dark Powers, Demons et al as External to OurSelves; yet The Only Monsters under Our Beds ARE The Monsters InSide of Us…when We Admit, Acknowledge And Address Our MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues) brought on by Our Conditioned Upbringing a Wonderful Thing Happens; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that We Return to The Purity of Our Childlike State and Watch in Wonder as Our Refreshed Curiosity has Us Innovating and Co-Creating Together
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ON PERCEPTION AND SELF FLAGELLATION
I AM NOT!!! a Qualified Mental Health Professional; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity that I AM a PhD from The University of Life…the Obviousness of Why We Have a ‘Negative’ Perception of ‘Negativity’ yet ARE UnAware of ‘Negative’ Perception of ‘Positivity’ is Funny; for example:
♡ Jealousy/Envy/Covetousness
♡ Anxiety/Resentment/Depression
♡ Rage/Anger/Fury
…are just a Few Consequences of Extreme ‘Positivity’; it’s also Crystal Clear Clarity to Me that We ARE Conditioned to Accept ‘Getting Things Right’ as The Norm so We Tend to Dwell on Our ‘Negativity’ which is Extremely UnHealthy Mentally…if We ‘Get Things Wrong’ We Get in to DEEP TROUBLE!!! if We Don’t Cover Up Our ‘Shortcomings’ Effectively; it is My Experience that if I AM to Focus Effectively on Areas for Improvement (‘Negativity’) then I Need to Focus on My Accomplishments and Achievements (‘Positivity’) Simultaneously…it is then that I SEE (Soulful Emotional Energy) IT; there is The Mole Hill of My ‘Negative’ Past and The Mountain of My ‘Positive’ Past Weighing about The Same so I CHOOSE!!! to Carry The Mountain and Keep an Eye on The Mole Hill which is Very Good for Creative/Business Practices and Personal Relationships
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ON VENGEANCE, VENDETTAS AND REVENGE
♡ “Resentment is like drinking poison while hoping the other person dies.” ~ St Augustine
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ON HAIKU
♡ Staying Sane
Emotions Ebb and Flow
Thoughts Come and Go
It Pays to Let Them Do So
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