Relationships Matter – Spiritual Sex

ON ‘COUPLING UP’

♡ I Am A 3DLife Balance Advisor; My Experience & Belief is that;

…We THINK!!! We KNOW what it means to be ‘In A Relationship’ when, In My Not So Humble Opinion (IMNSHO), We Are Only Ever ‘In A Relationship’ when We FEEL it; Our Conditioned Upbringing, Media (Both ‘Factual’ Reporting & ‘Fictional’ Representation’) and Pressure from Friends & Family have Us Creating Unconscious ‘Relationship CheckLists’ that only become Conscious when We Decide We Wanna Break Up; One of the Many Reasons My Ex-Wife gave for Her CHOICE & DECISION to Split was a Pros & Cons List that She Refused to Show Me, Why? Your Guess is as Good as Mine; My Guess is that She Entered & Exited Our Marriage with Her Head while I Entered Our Marriage with a Light Heart and Reluctantly Exited with a Heavy Heart…hence My Adoption of WFC (Worst First Courting); WFC is Getting the Major Fights Out of The Way before ‘Getting Together’…some of Us will Talk More with Close Friends & Family about Our Sexual/Romantic Relationships than with Our Sexual/Romantic Partners; these are clearly Head-Led rather than Heart-Led Sexual/Romantic Relationships, The Rationale? Preventing a Break Up by Avoiding ‘Rocking The Boat’…then the EXACT OPPOSITE happens when The Deceit is Uncovered; Our Sexual/Romantic Relationship is Exposed as THE LIE!!! it has ALWAYS!!! been from the Start…so, What To Do? I Believe that this a Matter for Each Individual to Decide for ThemSelves; My View is:

♡ WFC; Pick Fights BEFORE ‘Getting Together’
♡ Total, Raw Boned Authentic, Honest Communication; Delivered with Care, Kindness & Compassion
♡ Slow, Spiritual Sex; with The Occasional ‘Wham Bam Thank You Ma’am!!!’ Thrown In

…I Used to ‘Pick Up Chicks’; these days I Wait, in The Total Absence of Arrogance, to be Approached by Grown Up Girls; then We Take IT from there to WhereEver IT Goes…

♡ We ALL, Eventually, Rediscover Our Own Personal Truths, These Are My Own Personal Truths, I Hope Your Path to Rediscovering Your Own Personal Truths is Less Painful than Mine Has Been; it’s a Pleasure to Serve, Stay Strong & Serene…I Am Therefore I THINK!!! I Am; We Are One Who Are Many rather than Many Who Are One

…♡♡♡…

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