Relationships Matter – Collation







A Collation of Some of My Posts & Associated Pics – ENJOY!!!


My Experience is that We ONLY EVER HATE Others when We HATE OurSelves, when We Project HATRED HATRED is Quite Often Reflected Back at Us ‘cos there are Currently Very Few Folk who Have or Have Rediscovered their Capacity & Capability to Alchemise Projected HATRED and Reflect it back as LOVE; These Few Wonderful Folk have Next to NO MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues) and HEAPS of Self-Love WithOut Arrogance, Selfishness or Any of that Other Negative Nastiness and have Opted to Contribute to the Raising of Our Collective Vibration…Nonetheless We Are NOT DOORMATS and Considerately Deliver TOUGH LOVE when We deem it NECESSARY; LOVE-of-Self is the ONLY Path to Eliminating HATRED-of-Self, We who LOVE OurSelves HATE NoOne or NoThing; ALL of Us have Infinite Healing Properties (IHP), Our Challenge is to Rediscover Our Childlike Healing Capacity and Rejoin Our Fellow LOVERS-of-Self in Our Psychological & Spiritual Synchronous Return to BLISS…



I have concluded it REALLY is ALL In Our Heads no matter whether Our Experience is ‘Bad’ or ‘Good’; when Our Experience is ‘Bad’ We may FEEL:

♡ Fear
♡ Anger
♡ Depression

…just like a FAD these FEELINGS are Fleeting; as are ‘Good’ FEELINGS like:

♡ Rapture
♡ Ecstasy
♡ Wonder

…I now LET My FEELINGS have Their Time then Pass rather than DWELL on those FEELINGS be they ‘Good’ or ‘Bad’…I believe ALL is about My 4D Soul Experiencing 3D DMEE (Dense Matter Energy Existence) ‘Good’ & ‘Bad’; I THINK!!! Our Accountability & Responsibility is to Manage The Psychological & Physiological Responses of Our 3DVessels then Serve ALL by CHOOSING Our ReActions CAREFULLY For The Benefit of ALL thereby Raising The Collective Vibration…



I struggled for a while with ‘Negative’:

♡ Situations
♡ People
♡ Events

…until I realised that the Sole Entity Making My CHOICES about ‘Negativity’ was, Surprise, Surprise, Me; once I realised that, I Knuckled Down to Some Serious Inner Work aka Transpersonal Therapy (a Blend of Psychotherapy & Energy/Spiritual Healing), My Version of which I refer to as ‘Individual Spiritism’ (IS) a Personal Healing Toolbox (PHT)…so, now, I treat EVERYTHING, ‘Good’ & ‘Bad’, as An Experience To Be Had; if I have ‘Bad’ Feelings I know they WILL Pass just as the ‘Good’ Feelings do, just as My Feelings ALWAYS have done…Ebb & Flow Peeps; Ebb & Flow…My Attention Goes Where Energy Flows; My Attention CANNOT Get Energy Flowing (“Where Attention Goes Energy Flows” is Complete & Utter Nonsense) ‘cos that is totally beyond My Control and, besides, Energy is Already Flowing; what My Attention CAN Control is How I Respond (Heart, Emotion, Feeling) & React (Head, Logic, Rationalising) to the Energy Flows that My Attention detects…



What We:

♡ Think
♡ Say (Verbally & In Writing)
♡ Do

…says So Much More about OurSelves than AnyOne Else; THINK!!! about it Peeps, please…



So just what do We THINK!!! The OSI (Organised Spirituality Industry) is talking about when They:

♡ Blame Ego?
♡ Explain Enlightenment?
♡ Insist It’s Just An Illusion?

I didn’t know My Answers to these questions until a Then Best Friend lent me a bunch of OSI Books which I read with great interest while THINKING!!! for MySelf then Extracting My Own Truth; I Fed My Truths back to her and she decided that Feedback Made Us Former Friends ‘cos I disagreed with her over summat she’d spent a great deal of money on and invested a lot of time in…My View is that Vague Terms like the above are Designed to be Deliberately Vague in order to Con & Fleece the Spiritually Weak & Vulnerable, especially the Wealthy Ones like:

♡ Maddona
♡ Tom Cruise
♡ My Rich Former Friend who often blames others for being a “Drag on Her Energy” & “Lowering Her Vibration”

…SomeThing WonderFul Happened FOR Me a while ago that demonstrates to me that understanding Ego, Enlightenment & Illusion does not require Extravagant Expenditure on Books, Audio/Visual Media, Seminars & The Like (So Many More Fun Things To Do With Money); to be understood, these things simply need us to Observe OurSelves, Observe Information & Experience then Extract Our Own Truth by THINKING!!!…now, here’s The Rub; We Do & Say things that Get Us feeling:

♡ Angry & Ashamed
♡ Conflicted & Confused
♡ Guilty & Embarrassed

…then we Deny & Justify these ‘Negative Feelings’, (Blaming Other People, Events & Things rather than Taking Our Own Personal Accountability & Responsibility) ‘cos we Cannot Bear The Thought that there is even A Hint of a ‘Bad Person’ looking back at us from Our Life Mirror; I CHOSE to look My ‘Bad Person’ from My Life Mirror In The Eye and discovered an interesting thing which is that I have a LOWER:

♡ Frequency
♡ Ego/Self
♡ Vibration

…and I have a HIGHER:

♡ Frequency
♡ Ego/Self
♡ Vibration

…I also discovered My “LOWER” is My Head with it’s Psychological Conditioning from Upbringing including My MMHI (Multiple Mental Health Issues) and My “HIGHER” is My Heart (Strictly Speaking Solar Plexus aka The Sun In The Stomach); like The Sun Our Solar Plexus is constantly exploding, sometimes quite violently like Solar Flares & Solar Wind, generating:

♡ Emotions like Anger/Calm, Hate/LOVE!!! et al
♡ Heat
♡ Light

…Our Solar Plexus is Directly connected to Our Brain via Our Spinal Cord and when these connections become POLLUTED by Our Upbringing We Live Our Lives Primarily from Our “LOWER” aka 3DHead; when We Surrender to Our “HIGHER” aka 4DHeart (Our Sun In Our Stomach) Our HigherEgo Gradually PURIFIES these POLLUTED connections (By No Means A Comfortable Process) Restoring them to Crystal Clear Clarity thereby Giving Us Back Our Access to:

♡ Source
♡ Universal Database
♡ Soul Urge
♡ Recklessness!!!
♡ Instinct
♡ Gut Feeling

…whatever We Wanna call it, We Are Beings Of Light and ALL Perfectly Capable of Re-Integrating Our Darkness instead of Denying it; this Restoration Process Completed FOR Me a while ago after 9 years post separation followed by divorce, joblessness, homelessness then RECOVERY with the Invaluable, Very Concerned, Unconditional (Though Sometimes A Little ScaredAngry), Freely Offered Support I Received With Eternal Gratitude, and I’ve virtually ELIMINATED The Issues of My Upbringing…I’ve Restored the Crystal Clear Communication between My Lower Self (Head, Ego, Brain) & Higher Self (Heart, Soul, Solar Plexus); The OSI Clearly seems to hold The View that Requires us to Pay Them Handsomely to get ALL of the Freely Shared Views above, Hmmm? I guess the OSI must be Driven by Their LowerEgo, I’ve CHOSEN to be Driven by My Higher Ego; what do You CHOOSE?…



I resolved My Ego Dilemma thus:

♡ I have a LowerEgo aka My Head
♡ I have a HigherEgo aka My Heart
♡ My Head is In Charge and Smart Enough to have Delegated Authority to My Heart which has Infinite Healing Properties (IHP)

…sooo My Head, while sometimes getting a Little Bit Nervous, Defers To & Trusts My Heart 100% just like it did when I was a Kid; sooo No More ‘Heart or Head’ Debates for Me EVER AGAIN!!! My Mind & Body remain young; it’s only My Soul aka My Heart that NEEDS to Track Time and that’s ‘cos it needs to know when to initiate Various Cellular Repair Processes…


…I hope there is something in here for ALL; of You Much Love To You ALL…


About Yernasia Quorelios

Writer, Philosopher, Pseudo Psyche, Ascension Assistant, WordSmith, Reader
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